I just got my Grey from a lady who never spent any time with him.His name is Pepper. We are a big family of my husband,4 boys(ages 12,10,7,5) and my hairless dog(LOL) and myself.I have done my reading up and home work before we chose to buy one.But I thought of just getting a baby one and going from there,but when I saw his pic in the add I fell in love.So I am having some problems with him pulling some feathers.I don't know if I should be worried.He also is not eating a lot of his food.He wants what I eat.So I'm thinking that maybe other owner gave him a lot of people food.So I saw the list that some of you have wrote about what he can have and what not.Thank you to that. If anyone can offer me some info that would be great.Oh and I can't get near him he bites.I know that with Greys there is a lot of trust problems so I understand that time will be needed.Thank you everyone for you time.