As posted earlier, I have had various parrots for over 33 years. It still amazes me at their ability to do many things to please their owner. It doesn't happen overnight, but they certainly do not lack for trying. My newest( 1 month ago) female CAG) is what I would consider not neglected but ignored. Both husband and wife worked long hours with the bird being upstairs in a spare bedroom. If they had enough time at night, the bird(Ruby) would be allowed to the living room to watch TV as the couple relaxed. My point on this is, if you are not committed enough for proper care, rehome the bird. Although it doesn't make too much difference to me, my Ruby was bonded to the wife although I was told different. She is proving that she appreciates everyone and will step-up to anyone. She prefers to be head-scratched by a female, but she constantly tries to please. If I didn't mention on an earlier post, she is 12 years old and was rehomed a month ago. I hope this is not too boring of a statement. All of everyones post are helpful, enjoyable and meaningful. Ken