Some good stories in here. I started my GF with handling rescues. She had all the confidence (I didn't tell her otherwise) in the world and would ask any bird to come to her. She took bites that made me cringe but I always acted indifferent. I also started to realize a lot of rescue birds like having my GF and I together. By myself I couldn't get some birds to even get close to the cage. Bring in my GF later in the week and the birds would run to be petted. Last night at my breeder I bonded with what she said was her most aggressive bird. That bird talked to me, let me pet it how I wanted and I finally got the nerve to put my hand in there...he stepped up without reserve. My breeder couldn't believe what she was seeing. The bird is so mean (I guess) that its favorite phrase is "what's your problem?"
In the end, my point is, I took my GF who was scared of birds and put her right into the mix of rescues. I didn't warn her, explain how rescues have issues most likely or how bad a bite can hurt, therefore, she never hesitated. She was braver than I and we've made three trips so far. Later on after the second trip I had to be quizzical. I asked her, how are you not afraid of those birds? You were braver than I...totally cool girl. She responds "have you seen our dogs? It's just one beak but our dogs teeth are bigger and there's more of them. But that Macaw creeps me out, it's huge!"
A positive attitude and solid state of mind go really, really far in life. It's up to you to apply that principle.