Well, I came here about three months ago if I recall stating I was looking into a Grey. I finally got mine about 5 weeks ago. I know I haven't been around but I've been pretty busy so I haven't had chance to come on many forums.
Onto the interesting part! For now, until I can have my bird tested, I'm assuming she's a female. I have a feeling she is anyway; don't ask me why. Something about her screams 'girl'. After watching hundreds of Grey videos on YouTube and falling in love with Tui who was owned by Andrew (kskiwi on the Internet) I named my bird Tui in memory of her. I loved the name and think it fits SO well for a bird. My mom also pushed me towards calling her Tui, aswell.
I'm not sure exactly how old she is. The guy in the pet shop gave us a rough estimate of about four months, but personally I think she's older than that. Her eyes are a paler grey than they should be for a bird of that age.
But I'm extremely happy with her and she's fitting in well. At the moment she does have a soft spot for my fiancee I must say and starts twittering away when he comes into the room. With me she's a little more cautious but recently has started showing a little more affection. Especially the other night when she was sleepy and was pushing herself to my fingers and licking my fingers. She's absolutely beautiful.