well looks like the recall training paid off !!!!!, i been there most of the day as i said, so i decided to go home for a hour or so to see if she would be glad to see m8, well she was, as soon as i started shouting etc she perked up i walkes backwards calling her & she took off & came to me & landed on my chest !!! so shes back home now safe & sound, i am so happy !!!!!! , that was some scare i can tell you, i love that bird !!