Well I have my grey finally. I decided to just go ahead and do it rather than to over annalyze the prospect of getting one. Her name is Vontease. She is a 15 year old grey. Her old owner couldn't keep her anymore because of health problems, so I decided to open my home to her. At first I felt overwhelmed by having such a sensitive creature in my charge and I didn't know if I was up to the task. I have had her for three days and she seems to be coming out of her shelll bit by bit. She is starting to talk; she says, hello, hi there honey, pretty bird, and water. She steps up and plays on top of her cage. So far so good. Will keep you posted on her progress. As per our agreement the previous owner will be stopping by periodically to visit with Vontease to help her transition go more smoothly. She will bee over tomorrow in fact, so we are both looking forward to that.