hi all, just registered today. I'm 20 and live in Ireland and have a congo african grey. I'm having some problems with him at the moment and came across this forum while looking for a solution. We got our grey Jake when I was 14 and he was a year old and hand tame when we got him. Unfortunately at that age I was a bit apprehensive of putting my hand near him and received a nasty bite which drew blood, this put me off trying to tame him totally which I regret and have started to try again now.
I realise it's such a waste for him to be just sitting there in that cage when we could both be getting enjoyment out of each other. He was always a bit nippy when I would be changing food from outside the cage and would try and bite me any time, but the other night when I decided to give it another go, he came out and sat on top of the cage, I couldn't believe it when I put my hand near him that he came over, put one foot up on the back of my hand and went from finger to finger, not biting, just gripping gently. He then started to let me pet him all over, and let me grip his beak, and any time I put my hand near the cage from then on he would come over straight away and do the same again.
He also did a lot of regurgitating, he'd put his beak between two fingers and do this, I understand this is a form of showing affection? The thing is, he still has a go at me when my hand is inside the cage (I'm guessing this could be because it's his territory and has been in there so long) I actually feel really bad now that I haven't given him as much attention as I could have, letting one bad experience get the better of me.
However, today when letting him out after doing the whole gripping my fingers in his beak he instantly grabbed my hand hard, which hurt a bit but he didn't leave a mark. He'd put his head down to be petted and then have a go at me straight away. I couldn't understand this as he was practically running over to my hand the other nights I let him out.
I know he's been in his cage so long with no handling whatsoever, so it could take a long time to gain his trust, but he is obviously still partially tame from the time he was with his previous owner
Sorry if I've went off rambling, but thought I would give you the whole story. Any opinions/help would be much appreciated.
Thank you
Tommy<br><br>Post edited by: tommyn, at: 2008/09/25 17:47