Well I have to say that the myth holds true here. At first my bird "female" was very close to me. When she got older she definately got nasty with me for no apparent reason. Although I remained her caregiver, she would bite me at times and even chase me down to bite me if she were out of her cage. When it came to any man around my house she was gentle as a lamb and all lovey dovey. She has made it clear I can't trust her over the years so I only handle her with perches. My boyfriend has no trouble handling her. I am almost ready to try to trust her again because I have seen no violent snip attempts at me in a very long time, maybe she was going through puberty or something. She is now 15 years old and I weaned her from a chick. Anyhow I know she loves men lol!!