Jess let Mike know we have been/are going through a similar experience as many others, when we added a re-homed Meyers Parrot, Mickey, to our flock. Mickey would drawn blood at every opportunity and I'm not talking a little nip but gushing ones! We have had him for 2 years and my husband is just now, this month, allowing him on his lap and scratching head but very fearful of picking Mickey up, it took me almost a year to feel comfortable but I am careful, keep myself calm whenever have to handle him and towel ALWAYS nearby in order to grab him.
*BUT what I wanted to ask you is = Does Mike wear dark colored clothing???? Both of my CAGs, very afraid of anyone wearing dark navy or black clothing, or to walk by cage with a black garbage bag, you would think something horrible is happening. My very large cousin came to visit last week and I had to make sure he stayed away from cages since he had worn a navy tee shirt. Just another idea to keep peace in the family! Good luck and hang in there Mike!