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I'm in a frustrating situation right now. We recently had an extended family member (my cousin) move into our house so she could go back to college full time without having to worry about working full time to support herself.
Unfortunately, she and the bird do NOT get along. She is far too pushy with ponti, she goes right up to the cage, talks loudly, and exhibits a generally overbearing demeanor with ponti. Then she gets frustrated when ponti tries to bite at her.
Far more troubling, however, is how she treats ponti when nobody else is at the house. And I've even caught her doing it when she thinks nobody else is looking. When my cousin is watching TV in the living room, and ponti is being loud, whistling, and carrying on (as she normally does), my cousin does pretty much whatever she thinks might shut ponti up. This includes yelling at her, shaking her cage, hitting the cage, throwing pillows at ponti's cage, etcetera.
I have sat my cousin down and told her the rules for being around the bird, and even tried to explain the fact that negative reinforcement with birds just DOES NOT WORK, and yet she doesnt seem to get it. Even after she agreed to leave the bird alone, I have caught her doing it again.
What should I do? I'm a firm believer that education is the best way to go, but despite my best efforts, she just doesnt seem to be able to learn how to properly act towards parrots. Is there any training material, literature, videos, etcetera, that I could get ahold of to help my cousin understand how to behave around Ponti?
I'm honestly afraid to leave ponti and my cousin alone at the house togeter, for fear that she will hurt ponti, or ruin all of ponti's training and turn her into a wild, frightened bird, instead of the tame, loving, friendly and cheerful bird that she is currently.
Any suggestions? I'm all ears. And if you suggest kicking her out of the house, believe me, it's crossed my mind.<br><br>Post edited by: matt314159, at: 2007/06/22 02:23