I never wanted children but I have one now. I can never compare my love to a woman who has given birth, but I don't know anything I'd fight for harder. Self sacrifice and devotion is an amazing quality to have. I have a Pak-O-Bird that I can get Habana safely to my car and then she lights up riding on my shoulder! I cannot begin to understand how someone would own a parrot like this and have an ounce of neglect in their body. I worry about exercise and diet and we play a flying game that builds her muscles. I wonder if she'd be happier in the jungle. I told her a few weeks ago when she freaked out that you are safe with love and amazing food and don't have to outrun Jaguars and Baboons to enjoy your day...........so just chill!! Lovingly, I said that and then as I rambled on I looked up and she was asleep!! I smiled because her foot was up and I knew she felt safe and I remembered what I say doesn't matter that much. It's action. Thank you for sharing your thoughts! That makes me happy to know I am not alone in this journey!