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Yeah I'm definitely going ahead with getting a boy. I think that as both are only babies I shouldn't have any problems with breeding aggression for at least12-24 months min. So should still be able to interact with them both in the house... If however they do decide they prefer getting scratches and smooches from each other rather than me then that's ok too. As long as they are happy 😊 Both being so young there is a higher chance they will get along...and if they don't I'll put a solid divider in the cage to give them privacy and space. im not getting this exact cage as I can't buy them I'm NZ. But I have a custom one similar being made for me

Hello! Just coming back to this page for an update on Keto and Gracie. I was finishing my masters when we added all these birds, and so had no time for message boards! But I see that we are coming up on 5 years with them, so I will let you know how things are going. It was so funny to read the above when we had first gotten them, because very little of their respective personalities has changed. It took them about a year before we could count on them not biting us (actually 5 years for Keto and I, since it was only recently that I could carry him from cage to perch without the Gauntlet of Good (a thick dish towel wrapped to protect my hand and arm)). He adores my husband, and Gracie adores me, so I guess we are all good there. Gracie has turned into a shameless snuggler but only in the evening (head-rubbing time). There is always a risk of being nipped in the morning! It has been FOREVER since anyone broke skin. Keto is the talker, and says the most amazing things. He has always had his "with us" vocabulary, and you can hear him muttering other things when we are out of the room, but could never quite make out the words. About a year ago he really stepped up his game. He says things that appropriate to the situation, sometimes things we have never heard him say before. He plays the "come here" game where he makes the request and I pop into the room and go out again, rinse, repeat a few times. One day I was running late and told him I didn't have time today and he said a long drawn-out "Oh no...." with perfectly sad inflection. He went through a short period where he said "F*ck you" several times, and when i called over to him "Not that one, Keto, that isn't very nice" he replied "Oh yeah?" and said it one more time, after which he was ignored for the rest of the day and never said it again. It is clear that he understands everything we say, sometimes knows the right response, and has a large enough (hidden) vocabulary to keep surprising us. He has said "Oh no" with different inflections, always appropriate to the situation. Gracie continues to be the whistler. We have shared with her Westminster and Bach, among others. She had repeated parts of the chimes, but is more often her own composer, sometime stringing together a good number of notes, which she can then repeat. Great fun! The "beaking" happens whenever we let it, always with either cage bars between them, or a thumb securely hanging on to feet. The outcome is always identical to when the first came. They both get involved, Gracie gets too aggressive, Keto hates it, and we pull them apart quick. It is clear that they love each other, and they each get a little nervous when the other one is out of the room. All in all, things have gone well. They are an endless source of entertainment, despite their demands. And parakeet Birdy is still rounding out our flock.

No magic wand so we just do our best working to keep them safe and as entertained and happy as possible. You did save Suki from his prison enviornment and you fought to bring him home. Not many of us live in what was our natural habitat any more either.

It's difficult to know what to do for the best and it's easy to fall into the trap of trying to work out all the 'what ifs'. As soon as Sukei was taken from the wild, there was no going back. And sure, he's been through a lot to get where he is now but it could have been a whole heap worse. He is in a good home with a family that loves him dearly and who moved mountains to get him home with them... where others may have simply given up and left him where he was because it was too inconvenient for them to fight the battles you had to fight. He doesn't know any different. His life (other than he early part) has always been with you, your family, & your environment. He is in the best place he could be with his background and I think you should be proud of everything you overcame to get him there.