KevinD

Believe me, they understand "Wait" When I say it, Sukei says "Why?"

This story is over, besides the fight with USFW later....years later, thank you all.

First thanks, I know it is automated, but I appreciated the Happy Birthday wish, but I had a question. This is a specialized website devoted to our partners in life, and you guys are very active. The question is this, do you feel like facebook takes away from the site? I'm old school and not going to do any advertising, I have a small hosting business, not for profit, more of a hobby, but I keep hearing the same things from clients over and over. There saying everyone has turned into a facebook drone, and the personal aspect of whatever their web site has to deal with seems to have been robbed by facebook. So my question is, over the years you have been here, do you see the same thing? Just your core users that know each other stay, and the rest come and go? For the help I found here, Ill be a lifetime member because of the friendships, loyalty and sincere folks I have found. In fact my situation has almost calmed to the point, Im going to try and set up a meeting with one of the members here. I would never even consider doing that with someone on facebook. I dunno, just wondering if anyone had any thoughts about the matter. On the most important note Sukei is doing fine, we have found him an Avian Vet (He didnt need one, but I wanted to give him a good check up after all he has been through) Vet reports he is more then healthy, again thank you all. V/r Kevin

Got a new one lol.... Sukei has a big 60 inch 4k TV to watch now, and seems to be picking up things more than the old 50 inch 1080P, Im not sure it's it is the resolution or the sound quality, also the proximity. He is about 20 feet away instead of 50 feet away. Anyways, I had the DVR running while we were out shopping, because I suspected he was was picking up things from the TV after the movie "Arthur" SLUT incident. lol. Long story, anyways, he started saying Sukei American , Sukei American. I rewound the DVR, and found a swearing in ceremony for new US citizens on the news, because one of the British anchor news man was there to get his citizenship and they were doing a story on it. Somehow, he picked up he was now in America........I swear LOL......too funny.

Genetics.... And genes. This is my own personal theory, take it or leave it lol. The gene pool in any one given area of a breeding population gets shallow at points. Lets just say were talking about the US. Domestic breeding leads to imbreading, over and over again. I have a medical degree (Human) but in talking with the avian doctors in the Middle East, they have told me, and it makes sense, that wild Greys have a deep genetic gene pool and contributes to the intelligence or in human terms the IQ of the Grey. Again, please dont take this as fact, its just what I have been told, and it makes the theory plausible. So in summation, I think the deeper the gene pool, the more intelligent the grey is. I am quite sure there are many other factors as to why some speak more then others, Im not sure anyone has ever done a real scientific study on the subject. I can tell you this, Im quite sure Sukei came from the Congo, based on the legal crap I went through with the CITES folks in Kuwait, and he talks in 4 different languages. Thats my two cents on the mater. I do want to say this, even if you grey does not talk, it doesn't make them any less of a friend, or special. They have the ability to talk, you just may have to work harder to get them to do so.

Stay the course my friend, stay the course. You will have some disappointments, and you will have days that make it all worth it. I compare relationships with greys as I do with human beings. Depending on your relationship, it can be a parent / child relationship, OR it can be a husband / wife relationship. I heard one time, someone tell me bird people are strange people, just get a dog or a cat if your a normal person. I think if you subscribe to that, you are a lazy person, not that dogs and cats are bad or having one puts you into a certain category. I had a Golden retriever for years till she died and it took me a long time to get over it. Being a "Bird person" as they say, means you are a caring concerned human being, and you are willing to make he sacrifice to make a relationship work, same as a parent/child or husband/wife relationship. Working with these wonderful angels requires so much more of you as a person then a dog or a cat. My brother is a Dog person 100% and every 10 or 11 years he has them cremated and put into a box and stacks them on his fireplace mantle. Please dont misunderstand me, I think that is a beautiful memorial, but after I lost lacy, I wanted to have someone to outlive me. So, I rescued a grey, same as you did. Our Journey was long and will continue. Just remember, life with a grey is forever, as far as your lifespan goes, so make it a good one, and you are off to a great start. Thank you for rescuing one, instead of going to the pet shop. As the years go by, you both will comfort each other, probably do the equivalent of cry with each other, and in the end, who knows what will happen, Sukei surprises me everyday. Good luck and thank you again.

Check your PM : - )

I'm clear now, I told them, I caught the flu from my mother whom we were staying with until we moved into our new place, but they got there regulations....rules ...... You know it seems to me they got to many *** rules and regulations for everything. I have multiple degrees, so Im not just spouting off, you have to be careful with everything, country, region, law, and giving advice, and then having to give a disclaimer about NOT giving advice. The internet is really a bad situation in that, you have no idea whom you are talking to or what advice they are giving. Its the wild wild west. I think we here in America created a lot of the problems with liability tort and what not. I dunno, all I can say is this form was a great source of support for me, and made me think differently, that allowed me to to figure out the whole mess I went thru. Over the years I searched thousands of posts here, that allowed for this eventual out come. I want to give back a little, so if I can help let me know. Thanks Kevin/Sukei

At my earliest possible time, I will set something up with you , I have a simple case of the flu which stopped me dead in my tracks, and the doctors here are trying to rule out middle east MIRS I think that the acronym. I wont forget. I promise.

Please let me know, I can help you in ways you haven't even thought of yet. The biggest issue being Grey's have been moved to Appendix I, while over all I agree with the move to cut down on pouching, it makes it REALLY difficult to help rescue birds. Please feel free to contact me, as the agencies you will be dealing with is USFW, USAPHIS, and their counter parts to the nations you will be dealing with. The US would have you believe that if you follow everything in this link https://www.aphis.usda.gov/aphis/pet-travel/bring-pet-into-the-united-states/pet-birds/pet-birds-non-us You will have no problems........ well if you take their advice, you would be WRONG, especially on time schedules and permit schedules. I will say this, if you bird is of US origin, your path will be about 76.2% easier (Calculation arrived at multiple levels LOL) Just let me know if you need help.

"Show me your doo doo" In a certain dialect of Tagalog, it means basically means show me your boo boo, but its funny when Sukei sees some one and asks to see their doo doo LOL.

It's all good we're home

Well, you can close this thread out, I wanted to say thank you all one last time. All is well. You see my sign up date, that's when the battle began, I had no idea it would be a Cinderella story. I would not have made it if not for the encouragement of everyone here. I submit the little things you say, you may not think makes any difference, I submit, let God decide, keep doing what you do. V/r Kevin

We learn by doing, Even though I don't fall into the regular category of field soilder, I have found that I exhibit traits of PTSD, although if you told anyone I would deny it. I have had to eliminate certain threats, but also having medic skills have saved certain assets. Fortunately I made it back and so did Sukei. If you ask me if it made a difference to either one of us on a scientific/psychological level, I would say yes to a degree. The person and they grey still have to want to make it work, and spend the time to make the relationship work, same as between all of God's creatures. We and Greys all not really all that different, it the commitment we humans are in control of.

One thing I have found as long as you KNOW, it is a safe environment, if you can keep them busy till you get back, they will be fine. Remember the old song "Every needs a little time away" from each other. Peter Cetara I believe. They are much Like us yet different. The difficulty is finding the balance.

They are correct there are literally thousands of Greys out there that need help. I had to go on the other side of the planet to find that out. I'm not dissing any breeders at all, but if you think of it in human terms, look at all the so called problem children up for adoption. Do you realize some of the greatest minds in the world were adopted children? My rescued Sukei I would not trade for a baby. He is smart as the day is long. He also came from the hard life, and that which does not kill us, makes us stronger, greys included.

Oh, I dont think she was fat-shaming, just pointing out the huge difference between when Sukei was rescued, and his current health.

The avatar was from when he was about 8 months old, He is full size now, and overweight a few ounces according to the vet : - )

I will probably take you up on it, need a break from the stress, but will give you PLENTY of notice : - )

All I don’t have any of my photo resizing stuff yet, so I just put them in a PDF. (I apologize if you dont have adobe reader) You can down load here. https://www.adrive.com/public/MaNsNc/sukei.pdf Thanks so much again. This is his temporary home, till we move in a few weeks to the new place. Your encouragement helped get me through!

Im sure we can work something out, we just have to get settled in, I've been away for 10 years, Im starting all over again lol.

All, I just got back from DFW it is 11:40 PM here, and Sukei is home and doing just fine. I still a little jet lagged, so were all going to get some sleep. Im still trying to wrap my head around the fact that we all made it home. I sit here and think, what was the chance that a poor african grey pouched from a South African jungle tree from his nest put in a box with 15 or 20 other birds, smuggled into the middle east and then basically left for dead because no one wanted him (Thats the way I think it happened based on what I know) not only survive, but make it to Dallas Texas to live a good life. I think, I will go buy a lottery ticket for him, because I think he has a better chance of winning the lotto. When we wake up in the morning, and get settled, Ill shoot those pictures. Thank You all again. There really is a God, too many miracles, too many things that cannot be explained away.

Well you know how it goes when someone asks where you live in Texas, you just say Dallas, because everyone knows where that is, on the other hand if you say I live in Collyville, they go "Say what" I dont know where that is lol. Right at the moment I am in Colleyille, until I find a place next to the next potential job.

No far my friend, thank you ! The wife and I arrived from Dubai yesterday, and are catching up on some sleep. USFW has determined I am still in violation because of the Kuwait CITES permit, and are going to release him for shipment to Dallas tomorrow afternoon at 2 PM. There will be no fine, but I am required to write an apology letter to the agent, and I cant tell you how bad that sticks in my throat. Along with the letter Sukei will have a life travel ban on him. (Not able to leave the US for life. NOW, I have already talked to a lawyer, and he said eat my peas and do it, then after a period of time, with all my evidence and correspondence with that agency, I can appeal it, and he is 99% sure with the documentation I sent him, he can get the ruling over turned. In the mean time, dont rock the boat. As much as it sucks, you pick your battles when the time is right. The important thing is right now he is in. The only reason the travel ban is an issue for me, is we have two homes, one in the Philippines, and one in Texas. We plan on staying here for at least 6 or 7 years. Ill shoot plenty of pictures, and will post them. THANK YOU ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!

I imagine its like "Home Alone 2" in New York for him. Im sure he will enjoy it.