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Wonderful photos! Thanks for sharing!

Little cuties! Thank you for sharing photos!

Oh my goodness she's so cute! I missed out on all these photos of Alfie as a baby. I didn't meet him until he was around 11 weeks old! She's so cute!

You need time to grieve and come to terms with the loss of Spy. Pets, no matter the species, become another family member and an integral part of your life. So give yourself the time you need to heal. Please do stick around if you feel like it, we will always welcome any posts you make, regardless of whether or not you decide to welcome to a new bird into your home and heart. Only you can make that decision and only you can decide whether the time is right or not if you do choose to get another pet/bird. Spy will never be replaced and will always have a place in your memories.

Great stuff! So glad you managed to work things out. You've made fantastic progress with Alex. It may seem like you're only making very small steps forward... but you're still going forward. It took a lot for Alex to learn to trust you and the stepping up is a BIG hurdle to have got over. Please do keep us updated with how you're both getting on!

Oh my goodness she is adorable! I'm getting parrot broody!!!

This is so exciting!!! Can't wait to see more progress!

I'm afraid I haven't had to deal with this situation either but I do feel for you. It may take some time to build trust and any kind of relationship with Oliver. It may always be the case that Oliver is "Andy's bird". Without knowing where Oliver has come from or the reasons for his rehome, it's impossible to guess what the problem might be caused by. It may be worth taking a step back (to avoid any more nasty bites) temporarily and letting Andy be the main caregiver. Maybe Oliver needs to get used to you slowly- perhaps start with keeping your distance (but still being in the room with him) and just get him used to your presence and your voice. Talk to him, read to him, tell him about your day... all from a distance. Don't try to approach him until he seems to accept you in the room. It might be that it takes a while for him to tolerate you. It may be easier to do this whilst he's in his cage as opposed to having the ability to fly at you as well. Prepared to be patient!!

I just read and responded to your other thread. I'm so sorry for your loss. Spy was clearly well loved and cared for and you did absolutely everything you could for her. I'm so very sorry that this has happened and I appreciate how hard this must be for you and your family.

Oh no. I'm so so sorry to hear this. I honestly don't know what to say right now other than please know you did everything you could for Spy.

hope things are still going well?

So glad to hear Ollie is doing so well!

I think the target/treat training may come in useful here. As nonsense is quite treat motivated, you should be able to continue with what you are currently doing- getting her to come closer to you to get a treat. Slowly, you may be able to morph this into stepping on your arm for the treat. If you put your arm at the edge of the cage top and get her to come across the cage to you for a treat, you may be able to continue this into her actually stepping on to your arm to get at the treat by holding the treat out of reach of the cage top- so that her only option to get the treat is to step on your arm to get it. Remember, patience is key. You may need to wait before moving on to this step until she is comfortable approaching you/your arm. I am envious that nonsense is doing well with the target/treat training. I can offer Alfie his favourite foods as a reward as much as I like, if he doesn't want to do what I'm asking, he's not interested! And target training? No chance- he tries to kill whatever I used as a target!! Haha. The hardest part is absorbing a bite. If she does happen to bite, you're best off trying your hardest not to react (easier said than done, I know!). If you can absorb the bite without reacting (other than to end the session and give her some space) then it isn't so much of a game to her anymore. Alfie still nips me from time to time. When this happens he is either moved to his cage/a perch away from me- or if he's already on his cage/a perch then I just move away and give him a little time and space to get over whatever he's grumpy about.

I couldn't see it either. Might need to tweak the access on it to make it public? Or post it to youtube as an unlisted video perhaps?

Alfie knows when my housemate or I are coming home. He sees the car pull up and hears us getting to the front door. That's when he starts saying "hello!" as a cheerful greeting. He'll do the same when he hears my housemate coming down the stairs into the lounge. Or when we go to open the door to someone. Whenever I show him new things, I try and sound excited about them. I show them to him, tell him about them and go "ooo!" So now whenever he's not sure about an object, he says "ooo!" in exactly the same way. I'm therefore a bit more mindful if I'm taking it near him (like the washing basket- he's very unsure about the washing basket!) I can't think of any others at the moment. The only other thing he does is wait 'til my housemate is passing the cage and make the biggest loudest squeak he can. He occasionally does it to me too. And as he's at ear level it goes right through you and is hard to ignore.

So so happy for you! Great video!

I love this!! Made me grin from ear to ear!

Hello and welcome to the forums!

Oh wow, glad it all worked out ok. I can only imagine how horrifying that must have been for you. It can happen to anyone, at any time.

Alfie is a definite no shoulder bird. I've tried it with him several times but after a while he just seeks out my ears to chew on (lucky for me I have thick hair so he normally gets removed before he finds them!). With this in mind, I'm VERY conscious that my eyes are not too far away- and I only have one good eye. (I can see out of the other one but its a lazy eye so it doesn't get much use and I struggle to focus with it). Therefore, Alfie is allowed on my hand and on my forearm, but no higher than the elbow. If he starts making his way up there, I redirect him by putting my other arm in the way. Doesn't stop him from trying- but if he persists, then I move him to the back of my chair, my leg if I'm sitting down or his play stand. I continue to talk to him and interact with him so it's not interpreted as a punishment... and he always get a 'good boy' for moving to the new location. If there is any doubt or any amount of fear about him being on your shoulder/close to your face- then it's not worth the risk. Redirect him to an alternate location or find something else more interesting (like a toy) to take his mind off it if you can.

Hahaha I had to look twice!

Massive credit to you for being so honest and open about your life with Charlie. Honestly, I think you're being a little hard on yourself at times. You're doing the right things. You're learning, you're researching, you're asking questions and you're adapting to the needs of your parrot. I'm afraid I don't feel I can offer much advice at this point but I'm sure someone else will come along soon with lots of helpful information. Keep doing what you're doing. IT could have easily ended so badly for Charlie- but he ended up with you and is being suitably spoiled rotten. On a totally separate note- love the look of his play stand. Wish I could get something like that over here.

Oh man. So sorry to hear that. Do keep us posted!

Hmm not sure what's going on there- but try creating a new thread and see if that works. I'm sure an admin will be able to help if you're still having troubles!

Hello Isaac! Looking good there!