Mistyparrot Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 (edited) Sadly my Mother who was 94 years old unexpectedly passed away last weekend. So naturally I have been very low. Misty my Grey parrot is clearly very empathic. He has also been a little subdued. He hasn't been his usual mischievous self. But he is still showing his affection. He has spent much of his time either on my shoulder on sitting on my knee. Sometimes soliciting scritches. The other night I was sitting and watching the TV and Misty flew over and perched on my hand which was just lying on my chest. Normally when he does this it is to give gentle beaks on my lips. But this time he raised his shoulders a little and bobbed his head with little "huffing" sounds. And then he began to regurgitate. Only a little and I offered my other hand to receive it. The thing is, in the Grey world this is a sign of great affection. It wasn't the full on mating display. It was just his way to express his affection for me in my sad time. I don't know if he understood what had happened. He had met my Mother severalf years ago when we stayed with her as I was in between homes. It was she who seemed to help him understand what "Cuppa tea" means to humans. I think he also got "Bed time" from her. She would say that when she retired for the night. I think he knew something was up and he wanted to cheer me up. It meant a lot to me. I am pretty sure that if it was a girlfriend who threw up over me I would take a different view :rolleyes: Steve n Mistyparrot Edited May 31, 2015 by Mistyparrot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muse Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 I am so sorry for your loss, Steve. I am sure Misty can feel your sorrow. It's wonderful that you both share memories of your mother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BaileysPapa Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 They may not understand particular circumstances, but, they do empathize with us. Sorry for your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danmcq Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 Sorry to hear that Steve. You have my condolences. At least Misty is there for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acappella Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 So sorry for your loss. I know for sure that parrots can pick up on our moods and sympathize/empathize with us when we're feeling low. Misty may not know what's going on specifically, but he knows you're sad and he's doing what he can to make you feel better. I'm glad he's there for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timbersmom Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 I am so sorry for your loss. My mother died suddenly at age 90 last summer (she lived alone and was in good health) so I can truly feel your pain! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brat Birds Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 I'm so sorry for your loss. Misty is doing everything he can think of to make you feel better. And you're right, only people with companion parrots would love that he threw up in your hand1 LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ray P Posted May 31, 2015 Share Posted May 31, 2015 A gift of sharing and feeling your loss with all the love she could give. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greywings Posted June 1, 2015 Share Posted June 1, 2015 A little love given to help you keep on keeping on. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 I am so sorry. Misty knew you were sad, and offered his love.They are very empathetic creatures.My thoughts and prayers are with you... Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
judygram Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 So sorry to hear of your loss, its a difficult thing to lose your mother and Misty felt your pain and offered his way of helping you thru it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katana600 Posted June 2, 2015 Share Posted June 2, 2015 That's a powerful gift from your friend. It's amazing how well he knows you and offered his best to you. My condolences on your loss. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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