bluedawg Posted August 27, 2013 Share Posted August 27, 2013 I was a bit worried after getting my cancer diagnosis that my Dayo would think less of me, since birds often hide their own illness so as not to be shunned by the flock and all. I had my final chemo tx last Thursday and I was quite ill this time around. I was pleasantly surprised to find Miss Dayo seamed to know I was ill and would sit quietly, sometimes all day long so I could rest and be ill in peace. She just wanted to be near me and sat near me the whole time lovingly and quietly. I am constantly so amazed by her depth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mistyparrot Posted August 27, 2013 Share Posted August 27, 2013 I don't think birds hide their illness from their flock but from potential predators. Predators will target weaker looking birds. So a sick bird will not want to risk attracting danger to their flock. On the other hand the flock will rally to the defence of any flock member. Your Dayo loves you and will never willingly desert you. I am sure she will help you through your fight however she can. Love from Steve n Mistyparrot. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luvparrots Posted August 27, 2013 Share Posted August 27, 2013 I believe our greys/parrots are intuitive and know instinctively how we are feeling. I find my three parrots always watching and I believe they know what is going on. Your grey has great compassion and wants to help alleviate any suffering/bad feelings that she senses. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted August 27, 2013 Share Posted August 27, 2013 bluedawg... I am sooooo sorry about your diagnosis! I know chemo takes it toll. We are here to support not just you and your bird, but you personally! Let me know if I can help in anyway. Greys truly are empathetic. Don't worry about Dayo. Baby will adapt to what you need. They are the most empathetic creatures I have ever met. Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluedawg Posted August 28, 2013 Author Share Posted August 28, 2013 Thank you Nancy, I have been trying to find the right person to watch her when I have to go in for surgery. I don't believe in clipping wings so it really has to be someone who is good with birds who will understand the intricacies and possible hazards of having a flighted bird. She has learned my house very well but it might be tough to bring a fully flighted bird to a strange house to stay. I am hoping I will only be in the hospital for like a week so if they keep her in her cage for that time it won't be too bad... I know if I were to "board" her at the vet she'd be in a small crate type cage the whole time. At least her own cage is large and familiar. I hate to leave her alone. She will not understand what is happening. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
judygram Posted August 28, 2013 Share Posted August 28, 2013 So sorry to hear of your cancer but do not worry about Dayo for she understands more than what we give them credit for, she can tell you are not feeling well hence she sat by your side as in comforting you with her presence. When the time comes to go for your surgery just explain what is happening and that you will be back soon with her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brat Birds Posted August 28, 2013 Share Posted August 28, 2013 So sorry to hear you are so sick. I agree, the Greys have a natural way of knowing when we don't feel well and they will help us feel better by being there for us in anyway they can. I must add that my Sun is just as good at this. Miss Dayo may not understand what is going on, but will be sooo happy when you return. Although she might show you some cold shoulders for awhile even though she and you will both know she is happy to see you! LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danmcq Posted August 28, 2013 Share Posted August 28, 2013 It's good to have the support of loving family and especially from your grey that will just sit with you in support. Chemo is a real challenge. I hope and pray for a quick and complete defeat of the cancer. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted August 28, 2013 Share Posted August 28, 2013 bluedawg... Do you have a support system? Whom do you plan on watching Dayo, when you are off having surgery, and who is coming to your house to take care of you? I live in Rochester, NY, if you are close, I would be more than happy to help you. Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluedawg Posted August 31, 2013 Author Share Posted August 31, 2013 Wow, thank you Nancy! That is so generous of you... but thankfully not necessary. I do have family close by and I have friends who will come stay at my house while I am away who will watch most of my animals but not miss Dayo. I need a "bird" person to watch her and I have another friend (bird person) who has volunteered to watch her. I am truly blown away by your generosity. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted August 31, 2013 Share Posted August 31, 2013 Anyone on this site would have helped! THATS what I love about this site. As a nurse, I know how much energy goes into chemo, appointments etc. If I can help you in anyway, let me know! Nancy 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chezron Posted September 1, 2013 Share Posted September 1, 2013 Sorry to hear about your illness. I wish you the best, and hope you have a speedy recovery. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluedawg Posted December 1, 2014 Author Share Posted December 1, 2014 JUst a quick update here - It was a year in Oct. since my surgery and I am still Cancer FREE 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SRSeedBurners Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 Good to hear. I never knew about your illness in the first place. I always love seeing your avatar - such a cutie-pie she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timbersmom Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 That's cause for celebration! Congratulations Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted December 1, 2014 Share Posted December 1, 2014 YAHOOOOOO! I am so excited for you! I know you will need to have followup, CT scans at 3 months, six months than a year.... I have gotten so close to many patients through the years. I DO have to say, I see more positive results than negative. We are hear for you and rooting for you all the way Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greywings Posted December 2, 2014 Share Posted December 2, 2014 If it helps to know I have been cancer free for over 8 years now, so thinkig good sailing ahead for you too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brat Birds Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Wonderful news!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted December 3, 2014 Share Posted December 3, 2014 Greywings.... congratulations! Eight years.... is a good sign! Its NOT just about our birds, but their owners. Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Acappella Posted December 6, 2014 Share Posted December 6, 2014 Wow, congrats. That first year is such an important milestone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JeffNOK Posted December 6, 2014 Share Posted December 6, 2014 Prayers and good wishes to you and your continued good health. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bluedawg Posted January 9, 2015 Author Share Posted January 9, 2015 Thank You everyone! grey wings... Congrats on eight years and many more to come. That is wonderful to hear Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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