paleale Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 Our family has had 10 day vacation planned out of state for summer vacation for quite some time. We had arrangements with Pearl's breeder to care of her while we were away. The breeder has had some health problems and recently informed us she will be unable to care for Pearl. Option 1- My mother in law comes over to our house nearly every day while my husband and I are at work. Occasional days, she's here all day with our young son. She has never touched Pearl or even opened up her cage door for her. Pearl does like her voice and listens intently when my mother in law approaches her cage. She likes my mother in law, but probably isn't sure enough to step up for her or let her touch. My mother is also willing to chip in and help with her, but Pearl is even more unsure of her- sometimes even flapping and making noises when my mother approaches the cage. Although they don't know each other that well, my mom would be happy to come over, open the door for her, feed her, clean her cage, etc. Option 2- The local parrot supply store offers boarding. She will be in a room with other parrots and will have a TV on. They made it very clear she will not be let out of her cage. So do I leave her home in her own house with her own toys and her own surroundings? Or... Do I send her off to the professionals in a strange surrounding? I will miss her very much and she's still just a baby. I fear coming home to a mad, plucked bare, grudge-filled little Grey. :eek: (If it makes a difference, she is still a "baby"- 7 months old.) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timbersmom Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 Wow, what a disappointment that your arrangements fell through! I'll let those with experience answer your question. As for me, I'd probably go with the "mothers." At least Pearl would be in familiar surroundings with people she knows anyway! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paleale Posted June 5, 2013 Author Share Posted June 5, 2013 Wow, what a disappointment that your arrangements fell through! I'll let those with experience answer your question. As for me, I'd probably go with the "mothers." At least Pearl would be in familiar surroundings with people she knows anyway! I was leaning towards the mothers too, Jamie. But! I am also no expert. Another point I wanted to make is that neither of the mothers will be spending the night with her. I've also explained to them that if this is the decision we decide to make, Pearl will climb out of her door and back into her cage. I don't know if that's a good idea or not... If she decides to glide off her cage (she was clipped before I got her from the breeder), then they'll have the task of getting her back in. Decisions, decisions... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 hANDS DOWN...mother-in-law. She already knows her, now it is time to develop the trust.Pearl will do just fine!I've done it all. Groomer took care of Sophie, left instructions she needed to be on the gym for general socializing. ( brought my toaster as well!) she wants toast every morning! Next thing I know when I got back... offers left for me to buy her. I didn't like that at all! Next... left her with Ryan's friend, as Sophie loved him. All went well, but she learned how to swear! Next, left her with a neighbor, that had an autistic child that she loved and trusted. Highly functional, and Sophie loved him! Parents were willing to supervise. The dad fell in love with Sophie. Whatever choice I make to take care of Sophie, she is always safe.She has got to stop making everyone fall in love with her! I get left with " broken hearts", along the way. Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Brat Birds Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 I think you already know which the best solutions is! LOL Is there time to get the two mother's some time with Pearl? Maybe have them give her treats. Have them change the water and feed Pearl. Maybe even handle her if there is time to train them. If not, she is still bette at home in my opinion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paleale Posted June 5, 2013 Author Share Posted June 5, 2013 Thank you, Nancy! You are always so reassuring. I think you already know which the best solutions is! LOL Is there time to get the two mother's some time with Pearl? Maybe have them give her treats. Have them change the water and feed Pearl. Maybe even handle her if there is time to train them. If not, she is still bette at home in my opinion. Hi Kelly! I think I already know too. Unfortunately we leave town around 12am on Friday, so there's not much time to train them. They will both be over for the rest of the week. I think having them (especially my mother in law) give her treats is a great idea. Grandmas love to spoil- maybe what I really need to worry about is coming home to a pudgy birdy. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danmcq Posted June 5, 2013 Share Posted June 5, 2013 It sounds like the MIL is the most preferred by Pearl. Being at home in her cage and familiar surroundngs and people would be the best place to stay in my opinion. Enjoy your vacation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted June 7, 2013 Share Posted June 7, 2013 I agree! Sophie enjoyed being home the best! I never got punished, when I got home whatever I did. It was always a new experience for Sophie. Of course, I talked daily to whomever was caring for her.Vacations are important. NOT just for parrents, but for birds. Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
judygram Posted June 7, 2013 Share Posted June 7, 2013 I'm lucky that my hubby and I do not vacation together, he uses all his vacation time for hunting so I travel alone and that leaves him to care for my fids, I just have to plan around his trips. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted June 8, 2013 Share Posted June 8, 2013 Judy...YOU... deserve a time away with your hubby! Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pikachu Posted June 11, 2013 Share Posted June 11, 2013 Paleale, where in StL are you located? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paleale Posted June 13, 2013 Author Share Posted June 13, 2013 Paleale, where in StL are you located? South County Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paleale Posted June 13, 2013 Author Share Posted June 13, 2013 Update! My mother has done most of the babysitting and Pearl is doing great! My mom says she's chowing down, very talkative, and even stepping up and lowering her head for scratches. I'm so proud of her for being so sweet and very thankful for my mother's help with her. I appreciate the advice, everyone. We leave tomorrow from Gulf Shores and should be back late tomorrow evening. It was a nice vacation, but I'm ready to get home. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Greywings Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Greyt and no exposure to other birds so you avoided health risks as well. Wonderful to hear how well she is doing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
danmcq Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Thanks for the update. It is good to hear the experience is going so well for both your Mother and Pearl. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ray P Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Glad things went so well with your vacation and with Pearl and your mother. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Timbersmom Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 That's great news! I'll bet you are so relieved, Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
judygram Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Pearl will be so glad to have her mommy back home so don't be surprised if she latches on to you as soon as you come thru the door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
katana600 Posted June 13, 2013 Share Posted June 13, 2013 Pearl doesn't have an iPad or calendar (yet) to wistfully count off the days to your return. She and Grandma are having some bonding time and that will be a blessing in the long run. You are probably worrying and thinking about her and she is probably playing and talking and passing the time with naps and grandma time. Glad your vacation is going well for you and that you have been assured that Pearl is happy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kins2321@yahoo.com Posted June 15, 2013 Share Posted June 15, 2013 Now don't get mad...when pearl will choose your mom over you if that happens! Totally normal.It may happen! Embrace having another person in her life.The end result is a well rounded bird that has alot of friends.You will still be mom. Just may take a few weeks.Nancy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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