Macey Been Gone Four Months

[maceygrey]

Hi Guys

 

Just logging in to talk to those who might understand how im feeling. My baby grey died four months ago and Im still not over her. I miss her so badley that my heartbreak just wont mend.

 

My parents adopted a baby grey just after i lost macey and i have since moved house. Macey is buried in my parents garden and I am miles away from her. I cant get over her.

 

I miss her. I have pictures of her around my new house and I think about her everyday. I have no children of my own and she was my only baby.

 

Will my feelings ever end.

 

Lyndsey xx

[JillyBeanz]

Oh Lyndsey - I remember Macey's story so well. Macey is at peace now, although you aren't. You will always remember her - and nothing will ever replace her.

 

It does get better in time - it was a year ago that I lost my 17 year old cockatiel. I still talk about him round here - as he was here for half of my life ~ which is a huge chunk of it, I'm sure you will agree.

 

It does get easier, I promise. Could you offer another grey or another bird a home? This really worked with me bringing Harvey home - you hardly have time to dwell.

 

You never forget them - they are not replaceable - but another would bring you so much joy

[maceygrey]

Hey Jilly

 

Thank you so much for understanding, I did get a baby grey about 2 weeks after macey died she is so lovely i adore her but she took to my mum because i had to move house to move to my new job. Where I live I cannot have a new bird because i work shifts It wouldnt be fair on the new baby. As much as I would have one tomorrow I fear I couldnt give it the same life although i have so much love to give it.

[Summerc25]

I am so sorry lindsey It does get better eventually. I have never lost a grey but I lost a cat before that I absolutey loved and adored. I thought I would never get over the heartbreak and to be honest I won't totally. I do think about it much, much less often now but I still cry when I think about him. This has been 4 years ago. It is always heard to lose a beloved pet and never easy to get over.

 

 

*hugs* I hope your heart feels better soon hun!

[BaxtersMom]

I am so sorry for you loss and I do understand. I lost a pet, it was a cat that passed away about 1 year ago. (Jan 14th) I had her for 12 years since she was only 4 weeks old. When you love a pet that much I don't know if you ever really get over it. I am still thinking about my precious kitty and I do still love her and miss her. People might think I am crazy but I have pictures of her around the house and I look at them pretty often but I am glad to see her. I look back at all our good times through the years and I have to smile. She made my heart so full and she still does so I am glad I still think of her and am just thankful that she was in my life. I was blessed to have her. You were blessed to have Macey too. Try to think of the good times. Our precious pets that were part of our families are at peace and at a better place. Might sound strange but they wouldn't want us to be sad. Remember the good times and it will help your heart feel better. I wouldn't want to ever forget my kitty and I doubt you would want to forget Macey. We were blessed to have them in our lives. Hugs.

[judygram]

Yes Lyndsey it will get better, I remember when you lost Macey and it was devastating to you and we shared your loss but time heals all wounds and so this shall pass also.

 

There will come a day when you will be able to provide a home for another grey if that is what you want, life will settle down and then you can share some of that love you have to give but in the meantime spend time with your mom's grey, even though your mom is the favorite you can still be a part of her life.

[Luvparrots]

Hi Lyndsey it's nice to hear from you again. It is so true we never get over the loss of someone we love. I just try to think of my lost love one as been in a much better place, healthy, happy and flying free and just having a good time watching me deal with life.