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It's crazy because 2 years before I had a 7 month old Congo(Caesar) die on me, then I bought one from the same breeder, another Congo(Cyrus), and he died when he was about the same age. This breeder was selling me suppoedly "Cameroon" Greys, which isn't really true from what I've read. It just means larger Congos, and I believe his breeding pair were giving out sick babies. Because I had autopsies done on both of my Baby Congos, Caesar and Cyrus, and they were both born with diseases they were bound to die from regardless. It was a tough 3 years. But I've gotten better, but it's still hard. It's crazy I saw this message today from you, because the past 3 nights I have been dreaming about Diana nonstop. It's nice to talk to someone or write someone about this. Help get it off my chest.
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I was pissed at her for the last month of her life since late June until when she passed July 26th, 2011. She was trying to get ahold of me non stop, texts, calls, messages boards, e-mails, and I was being stupid and ignoring her. I don't even think she knew I was mad, I was being dumb. She wasn't getting the proper meds for her to get through dialysis. It turned out she was missing a lot of sessions. They should have been on her making sure she was going. I blame myself partly for not staying close. The weekend before she passed she was calling me asking if she could come down and. I was ignored her. Her sister called one day and I ignored that too. But my parents thought something was wrong. They called her sister to see what was going on and they found her slouched over in bed, looked asleep but she was dead. They didn't do a thorough autopsy because of her disease. I believe the final thing that got her was a heartattack from her blood not getting dialysized.
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Sorry I took so long to get back to you. I haven't come on GreyForums.net in a while. Anyhow to answer your question Diana was my girlfriend, she had a kidney disease called Membrano Prolifertive Glumertide Nephritis(MPGN). She got a perfect kidney transplant in early 2007. But in January of 2009 the new kidney failed and she had to go on dialysis. Really hard treatment if you know about it. It cleans your blood and it takes 4 hours and she had to go every other day. We were living together with my parents and after 3 years my parents were having problems so we were suppose to move out. She wanted to move back to her hometown of San Jose, 2 hours from where we were living. I didn't think it was a good idea. I didn't really fight hard to keep her here. But I wanted to get things together so we could get our own place. While she was living back in her home town none of her family was looking out for her like they should have. Except her mother helped a little bit.