thank you so much for replying! I'll let the husband know your advice as well! Her name is Pheobe, I do have pics but will have to post them another time as I dont have my camera with me at the moment. the funny thing is, she is perfectly ok with me kissing her beak. I think one of her problems may be that she's overly territorial, as the man who had her before never let her leave her cage. Now that we have her, we have built her a portable perch so she can be wherever with us, but she soon flies/walks back to her safety zone, the cage. It's not an ideal house for bird training, as I have read that they do better if they can't see thier cage to fly back to it, and we live in sort of a studio apt. Thanks for the advice! Keep it coming! Pictures to follow soon. -Papaleka