Hiya Jeff,
Thank you for your reply, and your advice does make alot of sense. As far as the bonding goes i had not what you would call a bad experience with my old parrot but it did indeed upset me. When we first got him he was 3 years old and quite a happy chappy, he did,nt take to me at all instead he did my husband. This was ok at first even though i could,nt really pet him or tickle him, to be honest i could,nt touch him at all without a bite. But this did become a problem later down the line when he started to attack me for no reason that i can think off, i could just be walking past him and he,d try attacking me Eventually we had to put him in his own room were my husband would spend his time and me in another room so he could be out of the cage and i wasnt going to get hurt. But as i said when i fell pregnant and we was both at the hospital so much the right thing at the time to do was give him to our friend who was also male and he did settle in very well there.
But now i,m scared that this could happen again. I spent alot of time talking and praisieng and even singing to him Yet he would just get more and more nasty towards me, so i,m just trying to understand and get as much info on the bonding process as i can to ensure we can all bond with our new baby as much as possible.