Thanks for all the welcomes.
I realize now that I made a mistake judging all greys by the few that I have met. I was very young however and he pretty much tortured us so I was a little traumatized. Looking back and knowing what I know now, there were a lot of things that were done completely wrong in caring for him. Plus he came with tons of baggage, his previous owner died and he was pretty ticked off about it.
My husband and I look at many birds, babies and adults from greencheeks, to goffins, to greenwings and this baby was just "the one".