Zoe,
Rest assured you are welcome here, and this is by no means an American forum. We have lots of people from the UK as well as many other countries. Ask as many questions as you like. I came here about one year before I brought my grey home and asked tons of questions. What I have found since joining this forum is that most of us are really glad when people come asking questions. We love these birds, and we know that the more informed a person is, the better home they will provide and the happier bird they will have. You will certainly find a diversity of views and personalities here, but with few exceptions people come from a positive place with a sincere heart. Hope your holidays aren't too busy and you can rest a bit and enjoy the season.