thats a hard situation for you to be in, but is there anyway when your husbands on the fone, cant your grey go into another room or not, its a really hard situation can you give us some more information, and i may come up with a better answer haha, could your husband have his office anywhere else, or any where else in the house i agree with what JudyGram said, he wants to be apart of your flock and always be round your family and wants to know whats going on lol i hope your problem gets resolved though i feel for you, and make sure you dont re-home him because of it, im sure theres another alternative.