Hi,
We currently are waiting for our baby to come home next week at around 12 weeks old. Unfortunately, i've spoke to a friend and her family member owns a conure. I was given some horror story and now am very nervous of what the future may hold for us. As I mentioned earlier I will be the primary caretaker of the bird (I am an at home parent but my girs will both be at school the youngest for 2 1/2 hrs and the oldest all day), my husband will be involved with some but works and I have 2 girls 7 and 4 years old. (The story I heard about the conure was that the bird has put a stain on the marriage since the bird gets posessive of the woman and the hubby takes a backseat to the bird, the had to sell their camper and cannot go away since the bird will pluck all its feathers out when they were away, even with a caretaker, its kissed their nephew sweetly and then a second later bit his nose and he needed 6 stitches, the bird calls out to be fed in the morning as soon as it hears a toilet flush (sometimes as early as 4 am) and it will throw the food at them if it isn't wanting that particular food and it also came to the point that they cannot have company since the bird will get so loud it becomes a problem. This has scared me to death...thinking what if my bird (even though its different) might do this.
Do you have any behavior issues like this with your Grey or is it all in how they are raised in your home? Will they learn the habits of your family? I was so excited for my baby and am now full of all this worry after hearing the horror....I want my joy back!
What is life like with your Grey? What is the typical day like? Do you work outside the home and your Grey spends some time alone during the day? Do you have issues just going out to the store for an hour or 2? Enlighten me on what it may be like.
Thank you for your help.