Hi everyone,
I'm new here and desperate for answers. I have an approximately 1.5 year old Congo African Grey named Snuffy. He's an absolute joy and been an amazing pet and friend since I got him at 4 months. He and I formed an immediate bond, people talk a lot about birds choosing their person, I know he chose me.
About 4 days ago Snuff began to break off some of the feathers on his chest, I watched him closely throughout the day and he continued to do it so I began to try my best to occupy and amuse him until I could get him in at his regular vet. I took him in (as I do every 6 months) and had him looked at and even had the doctor run blood tests. Result: nothing is wrong...medically at least. I took him home, he was good about the feather breaking for the remainder of the day. When I woke up the next morning, he was at it again with a vengeance. He had plucked an approximately dime sized bare patch on his right "shoulder."
The vet gave me an aloe spray that seems to stop the plucking...until it dries, so I kind of think that it's useless.
I don't understand what could be causing this. I'm a great bird owner, he has a huge cage full of great toys, he's fed an all pellet and fresh fruit/veggie diet. He's kept in the most occupied room of my house, he gets enough sleep, he (up until 4 days ago when he began to pluck) was meticulous about preening, he is acting like himself, not at all aggressive toward me or my girlfriend (who he's still warming up to.) He gets a bath about once every 2 weeks (he hates bathing for some reason, so I compromise with him and only make him do it twice a month.) He's even learning new words. He's learned 1 new word and a new phrase in just the last few days. He's really smart.
In spite of all that, life isn't perfect for Snuff. I'm a full time fireman so I work an odd schedule. I work for 24 hours and have 48 hours off after that. The days that I'm home, he's out of his house for upwards of 15 hours a day. I take him around the house with me, I have a shower perch so he can sit in the warm and humid shower with me (one of his favorite things to do.) The days that I work I wake up early so he can have about an hour our of his cage before I go to work. My girlfriend does not live with me, but she comes over when she gets off of work at about 7pm, so he's in his house for 12 straight hours while I'm at work. She usually hangs around until about 10 or 11, so he's getting 4-5 hours total out of his house, I know...not ideal, but it's better than nothing.
The only thing I can think of that may be causing the plucking is I broke up with my long time and live-in girlfriend about 3 months ago and she moved out. She had been around since Snuff came home, so she was always there from the beginning. He didn't seem to mind much that she was gone though, I'm his person, so her leaving didn't seem to mean much to him.
I have a new girlfriend, he will step up to her occasionally, but really only if he thinks he can get to me. He has not been abused, I've yelled at him a few times in frustration...I know that's not right, but I've never hit him or hurt him intentionally.
I'm at a loss here and terrified that I'm going to lose my friend. He means the world to me and I can't imagine life without him. Help me so I can keep my friend, my bird. Should I try pluck-no-more? The vet wasn't much help and he's an avian vet, so I don't know what else to do. Please help! Thank you!