Hey ya'll. My name is Jacky and I live by Albany, NY. I have an AGC a sulfer crested cockatoo, and a jenday conure. I have no problem taking my little jenday out of his cage, but the other two I have big problems with. I bought the African grey when he or she was about 7 months old and I have had him for about 2 years. He has NEVER stepped up in his life. My cockatoo has been passed from home to home to home for the first 3 years of his life. My fiance and I finally bought him and he had a fairly good temperment. He would step up, say hello for a peanut, lift his wing fo my fiance to pet under. One day I held him and he got nervous and bit my arm very badly. Then the same thing happened with my fiance. It's been about 5-6 months since he has been out of his cage and I feel horrible! I have been working with him (Scooter) in his cage since then. Scooter will let me pet his beak, he likes when I put my head by his cage so he can play with my hair, and he just like me talking to him. I am too scared to take him out of his cage, one he doesn't have his wings clipped, and two, I don't want to get hurt and then shake him off of me and he get hurt. I feel so bad for my African Grey and my Cockatoo! I want them out of the cage and with me. I want to do daily activities like play on the computer, do homework, wash some dishes with them taking turns on my shoulder, or walking around on my table, or on their play stand. I need a trainer who will come to my house and work with me and my birds. I will pay per session, whatever amount you want! I cannot see life without my birds, so giving them up is not an option! I feel so bad for them, I try and picture my whole life just in a cage, and it seems really boring, will someone please help me?