thanks, this is all great advice. i was kinda uneasy anyway about handfeeding, althought i did really want to learn. i will just have to ask the breeder to wean for me. or i will try to find one somewhere else. i already had trouble finding a breeder here, and he was the only one i could find. there is a grey here now at a pet store near by that is from the same breeder but they are asking double what the breeder wants. thats just nuts.
it would be nice to bring home a baby and only have to worry about giving it lots of love and bonding with it vs focusing all my energy on making sure i am feeding it correctly and not trying to harm it.
so if he says no he wont wean for me then i guess it wasnt ment to be! ill have to start looking all over. but it is all for the best for the bird.
it is so nice to talk to experienced owners.