Hey everyone, I'm new here, bought an African Grey a week ago today, Lenny, hes 13 weeks old and hes great. He seems to be settling in well, the only thing is my uncle comes to visit my house a lot, and my parrot has taken a real shine to him. When my uncle comes to visit, Lenny will squeak, become really excited and will allow my uncle to hold, scratch and snuggle with him. This is great except he doesn't seem to want to do this with me.
I know it takes a lot of patience and time for them to earn your trust, and I know I've only had him for a week, so I have been sitting by the cage, talking to him etc. and he will step on and off my hand on command, but this is as far as it goes as then he will fly away, or if my uncle is here, he will fly straight to him to be snuggled.
My uncle hasn't really done anything to warrant such attention from Lenny, he just flew to him the day we got him.
I'd just like to know if I give Lenny time to earn my trust will he eventually treat me like he does my uncle, or has he chosen my uncle?
Is there anything I can do to shift Lenny's attention towards me? Should I prevent my uncle from visiting until Lenny trusts me more?
Any help would be greatly appreciated! Thanks