Thanks again, everybody, for your thoughts and breeder references. I hope I don't have to have a bird shipped - I live in Alabama. The websites given looked VERY professional, though one didn't have TAG's. My closest (and slightly more expensive) breeder keeps the bird for an extra week after weaning, but estimated that August would probably work out. I did really like her from our phone conversation. She doesn't have a website.
By the way, she feeds pellets, veggies and fruit, and very small amounts of nuts and seed. However, Breeder # 3 disagreed with the more pellet/limited seeds theory, although she was willing to feed pellets if I insisted. She claimed pellet companies are just trying to make money with their expensive product, and that natural (fresh) oils from seeds were important (along with veggies and fruit). I mentioned I'd recently read that African Greys diets should have less fat than originally thought due to (I think) heart disease (whatever Alex died of). Breeder #3 didn't like the new studies.
I'm positive that the members here have well thought out opinions on this. I'll check the past forums. Do any of these comments point to one breeder over another, in your opinions?
Thanks,
Suzy