This thread has been very informative. I'm volunteering at a parrot rescue and have hopes of adopting a grey at some point. I'm still keeping the option open of getting a baby, also. I feel that if I meet a grey at the rescue center that I have a connection with, then I will do everything possible to give he/she a wonderful new home. I'm really wanting to find my grey before Christmas this year. I teach year round and I get 3 weeks off at Christmas. Whether I get a baby or an older rehomed grey, I want to have the full 3 weeks to spend with my new friend so that he/she can begin to feel at home. My family is very aware of the amount of work that goes into caring for a parrot and we're all committed to adding another to our home. We have a sun conure, 2 dogs, 2 cats, 2 guinea pigs (they stay at school) and 2 red foot tortoises. I have to admit that I have mixed feelings about which to get. Part of me wants to be the first parront and experience all the growth and change and part of me wants to help a grey that has lost its home and is in need of finding love, trust and security with a family. Whichever I get, I believe the members of this forum will be able to give me constructive advice and I truly appreciate that.