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I have a 19 year old African Grey who was handfed by me.I took her out of the cage everyday and she had complete run of the house until bedtime. When my mom became ill I was not at home all the time so my Grey's schedule was different. My husband started to take her out and she bonded to him to the point that when I tried to get her out, she severely bit me. Needless to say it has been 19 over 17 years since I have taken her out. I have played into her hands when she leaped toward me and I pulled back in fear. My husband can still take her out and sometimes she will give him a little bite also. What can I do to have her trust me again. I talk to her and she coos when I come near the cage and lets me pet her beak, but I am afraid of putting my hands inside of her cage to take her out.