I thank everyone so much for the responses..It feels reassuring to know that someone out there who cares about and understands what we might be going through..my whole family knows how much my chopper means to me but no one knows what to say when i'm spilling my feelings on them..
Anyways, i've brought chopper to a specialist, thank goodness the weather permitted me to take him out.
After a 3 hours discussion and examination, this is what the diagnosis is..# 1 she discovered a progressed yeast infection through examining his stool. #2 he is molting but having a hard time because of the fact that he has a yeast infection he is not absorbing nutrients sufficiantly and is now in great dificiancy of many of the nutrients needed. Also, his skin is sooooo dry, this is from the lack of bathing him, which makes sence because since we've moved he wants no part of this bathroom and i figured his bathing himself in his water bowl was enough, but i was wrong..and being that it is cold winter now, the heating system is on full blast all the time which is just drying him to a crisp..
Another important factor which needs to be corrected right away is that for the last few weeks, i have had a hard time sleeping and have been up much later than normal..2-3 am and chopper goes to sleep at night when i go to sleep at night and our house hold wakes up at 7 am every morning..which means he has been getting 5-6 hours of undisturbed sleep. This the vet said is a must stop and fix now...he is exhausted which makes him anxious and frustrated, not enough sleep makes him have a lower imune system and effects his health tremendously in every angle.. my god how could i have not realized that...my poor baby..i have so much to fix...his diet has been changed to a high maintenance food and i am not to give him more than 2-3 tbs of fruit or vegies (organic) she gave me a soothing spray and a bathing spray with aloe vera and meds for his yeast infection which i have to give him orally for 10 days..last night i put him in a different room were we do not go in so that he could have an undisturbed sleep, but i heard him pacing and pacing restlessly, i didn't want him to feel abandoned so i peaked in a few times and talked to him telling him it was time for nite nite which he understands...eventually he fell asleep..today there were big changes already, he had more pep and was a little more playful. The mist seems to relieve him, he is fussing less over his feathers and seems to be a little less irritated...he wants no part of his new food pellets what so ever, he throws them as far as he can lol, this we will have to work on as well...
and that is where we are at for now. We stil have long ways to go, but i will do my ultimate best to get him happy again.. so many things i have learned in the last few days, and so much more to learn no doubt, but do so with open ears..I am tired now for it's again very late at night, but tomorrow i will post some pictures and videos if i can, i have some on you tube under chopperrrrrr ...again many thanks and will be on soon to hopefully chat and exchange our experiences and knowledge.
all the best..choppersmom