Thanks for your Advice,
I bought a playstand for him for when he comes out of the cage i will be setting it up today and i will put it near his cage so he can see it before i open the door, i don't want to scare him more than he is already. I wasn't at the pet shop when my husband bought him, he went looking for one as i was already buying a baby but i was scammed so he spent most of the day on the 23rd Dec to find me one, the last pet shop he found Casper He was looked after quite well and last year was the only year they decided to sell him, i have all his health paperwork and hatching Certificare. My husband said he was in a big cage where he could fly around but as far as handling him i don't know if they did, when they went into his cage they had a towel so he was trying to get away from them.
I have tried quite a few fruits and other things, he doesn't seem too like Carrots that much he just throws them on the floor when i put them in the cage, but he does love Apples and sprey millet as soon as you put these in his cage he will take them straight away, We have tried to give them by hand but he was growling when we were getting too close, but last night my husband tried with the Spray millet and he was going for it but changed him mind.
We also are in the process of purchasing a new cage, when i was in the process of buying the baby Grey this was the only cage we could find in shops around us, as you will see in the pictures the bars are not right for him but Casper can get around the cage no problem, i have found a Parrot cage on the Internet that will be ideal for him.
Thanks again for you advice i will keep you updated