Oh boy, this is going to be my first post other than on the welcome page, but here goes...
I'll start by saying that I agree that often animals are acquired without much forethought I personally find the numbers of homeless and unwanted animals maddening. However, I had to temporarily rehome my birds due to personal circustances, one of which was being pregnant which put me on complete bed rest, then the resulting care of my daughter who was born almost 2 months early who needed round the clock care for quite some time, then the resulting divorce (which put me in the poor house for a while). By the way, I was supposed to be unable to have children so that was not a factor in my decision in adding feathered children to my family.
My solution was to home them temporarily with my grandmother who had recently lost her TAG. It was a hard decision, one that hurt me greatly to make, but it was one that needed to be made. I hand raised both birds and was closely bonded with both for many years. They have been with my grandmother for four years while I rebuilt my life, my finances, my stability, but they are coming home next weekend.
I am not ashamed of doing what I did because I know it couldn't have been different for me at the time, and I know placing them with someone that was home with them all day giving them the attention and quality care they needed was best for them as well. I just ask that some of you who have very "black and white" thinking about it, consider that things don't always work out as you plan, and sometimes difficult decisions need to be made.
Thanks!
Stephanie