Ive owned a grey before, and everything was great with him. Since a divorce a while back, I purchased a grey that is 10 years old and I am male and it prefers women. My girlfriend is scared to death of him, and he loves her. I sit and try to talk to him in his cage, but I cannot seem to gain her trust. The only time I can get her to step up is if she comes out of the cage and goes to the floor. I do everything to make sure she eats right and spend lots of time just talking to her, but she refuses to step up. Ive had her for over two weeks, am I expecting too much, too soo. Thanks