okay, thanks for all the responses. I do know that it is an honor for my grey to want to feed me, but thats all he wants to do. I cant work with him, love him, snuggle, nothing. I am his second owner and I dont believe he was taken good care of, he responds alot better to men than women, so it took me quite awhile to get him where he is now, but like i said, i cant do anything with him, because any and all interaction is based on his regurgitation. Help