I have actually had great sucess with dealing with my children and Raven My son is 7 and my daughter is 4, Before raven even came home we spend alot of time going over new house rules and the right way to act around him. As soon as we got him home I had the kids interact with hir right away, They took the same steps I did with getting to know Raven, My 4 year old doesn't care to hold him, but loves to pet him. My 7 year old is great with him. I know I have a great bird. But I will say it was the time preparing them and teaching them the respect raven needed that really made the diffence.They even call him there little brother. Here are some pictures of them, (well im going to attempt this anyways)
Tyler and Raven
Isabel and Raven