Hello everyone,
I've had Buddy, the TAG, for about 4 months now. He is an adult I bought from a bird collector/dealer.
Buddy had major trust issues for a time, things like diving off rather than being near me.
I believe he was handled quite badly previously, so was mostly afraid.
Now, he is stepping up, going 'bye bye' onto my arm, wanting to be in the room where I am, etc. He has made lots of good progress in a short time.
The trouble is---he will give me a vicious intentional bite randomly. The latest was Saturday.
I returned home with wiffle balls into which I put chicken thigh bones (his favorite), and told him what I had. He hopped right onto my arm from his playperch, and as I was placing him onto his cage perch, he grabbed hold of the web flesh between my thumb and index finger and gave me a fully-wide-open bite which drew blood and incapacitated my hand for two days. OW!! Geez, talk about feeling snubbed. It's hard to want to be around him when he does this to me. And I'm the person he likes! He's afraid of my husband still.
I realize it is probably because his cage was involved, or food/treats, or not wanting to go into his cage (he did step right up, though).
But, still, I would like to trust him, but from now on, him stepping onto my hand will take unprecidented courage on my part. I cannot use a perch/stick, as his previous owner had a 'method' of locking parrots in a shower and forcing them onto perches. Needless to say, Buddy freaks with sticks of any sort, including brooms, etc etc.
Has anyone had similar experiences with this trust thing and how can I get past this? Also, he has just barely begun to let me touch his toes and beak when I wake him in the morning as he is clinging to the side of his cage. I'm outside of the cage, of course, with bars for protection. I thought we were coming along pretty well!
Any help welcome,
Thanks,
Linda