Hi,I'm Perry's Grandma. My son bought Perry a yr. ago, when Perry was 2 months old.Together my son and I spoon fed Perry. Perry became very close with my son and put's up with me.My problem? My son has started a new job and is gone most of the time. I am the one who takes care of Perry.. thus the name Perry's Grandma..Perry talks a lot, makes sounds, whistles tunes I sing but won't let me pick him up to give him attention. he has a large cage in my dinning area that has a top that opens.. he will come out and talk to me, make kissing noises, copy what I say but wont eat from my hand or eat from a dish he is familiar with.. He loves to interact with me, but keep the hands away.. My son travels 1 to 2 weeks and is home 5 days then leaves again. Taking Perry with Him is out of the question. I love Perry but don't know how to help him. My kids have had other birds/parrot and I've gotten along great with them to the point when they moved out with their birds still remember me when I visit.. Does anyone have any suggestions for me. Recently when he let me pick him up, he got on my shoulder and bit my ear and finger. I handle him daily. he has a night time cage and day time cage. He doesn't have a problem getting on my finger in the morning to go to his daytime cage, It's through out the day that I have the problem. When he does bite (everyday) I have to endure the biting to keep it from a habit. He does not do this to my son. I have a farm with lot's of animals so I understand this is a problem and needs to be fixed.. it isn't a fear factor, on my part.. If anyone has Ideas, please send them my way..