sophie

Hi, I am new to the forum and considering buying a ten yr old timneh who seems to prefer females and I was just told that he won't let you touch him; unless you are in the shower; I this find very disapointing and I am really unsure if this is the right bird for me. I will be his third owner. His first owner abused him and his mate, who died. The second owner got a new grey that prefers men. So now they want to rehome him. I am not sure what I should do; perhaps it is best to and get a baby that I can train and cuddle with. What do you think?