Hi, everyone! I've been a lurker here for quite a while. My husband and I just adopted our first greys so I wanted to say hello because I'm sure we'll have lots of questions for y'all . We have wanted a grey for years, and researched and read for months before we took the plunge. We're home all the time so we have plenty of time/attention to devote to our critters.
We only intended to adopt one grey. We chose a female TAG (4yo.) We have had her for a few weeks. She had a rough start in life (several different homes, health issues, etc.) but she came to us super tame, speaking a few words, and has settled in fairly well here. We've had her vet checked and she's just a sweet and happy bird. She's definitely my husband's baby and her favorite thing to do is sit with him and demand head scratches. She likes me okay but not for petting- I'm the food lady, lol. She has added to her vocabulary a bit and is learning new sounds, etc., since she's been with us.
We went to a nearby larger town last week to get some things for her at a pet shop (perches, toys, etc.) and ended up coming home with a 7yo CAG. It was not our intention to buy a bird that day, but I just could not leave him/her at that pet store. He's 7 and not DNA sexed (so he could be a she.) They were calling him Pete but we've changed that to Scout. He belonged to an elderly lady who ended up going into an assisted living facility. The lady's family cared for him until she passed and then they sold him to a pet shop where he'd been for several months.
Scout did not like the pet store people at all, but came to me when I started talking to him. He may talk but they had only heard him whistle. I wasn't considering buying him but he whistled for me to come back to him every time I tried to walk away from him .
So anyway. He is very distrustful of people right now, but we think that his first owner loved and spoiled him, because he loves to be close to us and hear us talk to him. He got excited about his fresh veggies and cooked food (whereas our TAG is clearly unimpressed with her chop, grain bakes, and sprouts so far. She looks at fresh veggies like they're scary but he knows what they are.) He does not pluck, but he is a nail chewer and has chewed one toenail all the way down. He whistles to me when I leave the room and we whistle back and forth at bedtime. He will accept food from my hand and likes me to give him a shower with a spray bottle. But I have not tried to touch him or anything like that, and don't want to upset him while he's learning that he's home to stay, and that we are good people who aren't going to hurt him. After his time at the pet store he is very leery of people's hands.
I would like to get him in to see our vet, though, and I was hoping for opinions on that. Is building trust more important than getting him seen at this point? I feel like if we towel him into the carrier and take him in that it will set him back, but I would like to make sure he's in good shape. His beak needs trimmed and his nails need some attention as well, and I'd like to have him DNA sexed. Your opinions and thoughts would be so appreciated.
Thanks!! And I look forward to learning more from you all!