Hi,
Just wanted to make an intro post. I have a 23-y-o B&G macaw and a 24-y-o CAG, both raised by me as babies. I live alone and they are my family!
Even though I've been a mum to my Grey, Bayli, for 24 years, SHE is the one in control of me. She bites for fun and goes for blood. The only reason I haven't been bit in a couple years is because I watch her body language and moods and I'm careful to be very alert to them! Bayli is super intelligent, talks a lot (is bi-lingual), plays a lot in her cage, eats well (and throws what she doesn't want all over the walls) and seems generally happy. She loves (asks) to get head scratches and beak kisses, but ONLY while she's in her cage (through the bars). I wouldn't DARE try either of those when she's out of her cage or I'd be back in the Emergency Room (again).
My B&G is out of her cage all the time when I'm home, but Bayli only comes out sometimes, if she's in the mood, and NEVER while the B&G is out. (If Bayli is in the mood to come out, I put my B&G back safely in the cage). My B&G is cuddly and a sweetie, but Bayli will attack her if she has a chance. Bayli is still jealous of the B&G even after 23 years!
I named my B&G "Mika". Bayli was 18 months old when I brought Mika home (still in an incubator). When Mika was old enough to begin coming out of the incubator for short periods of time, Bayli would give the evil eye and say "Here comes trouble". Bayli would say that every time Mika was out of the incubator. During this time, I was careful to give Bayli lots of attention so she wouldn't feel "replaced" by the new baby B&G. (Bayli was well socialised and even went to work with me). When Mika was old enough to be out of the incubator and in a regular cage, Bayli would look at her several time a day and yell, "trouble!"
To make a long story short, by the time Mika was old enough to talk she thought her name was "trouble" because Bayli kept saying that to her, (even though I always called her "Mika"). One day I picked her up and said, "Hi Mika!" (like I always did). Mika, who had never spoken before, said "bubble!" I laughed and said "Mika!". Mika said "bubble!". She obviously thought her name was "trouble" but couldn't pronounce it so it came out as "bubble". Mika kept repeating "bubble! bubble!" (the only word she said). Then Bayli started calling her "Bubble".
So, my Grey, Bayli, named my B&G "Bubble". I kept trying to get both of them to say "Mika", but it was two against one. They outnumbered me. They won. 23 years later, my B&G is still "Bubble" and never did say "Mika".