Thank you everyone! I know life expectancy is very long, I also understand that the time dedicated will be a lot. I will try to absorb as much as I can, at least that's the plan. Since I was a little child I have wanted a grey, I've had budgies and I'm sure it is a completely different experience and I may be in no way prepared now for a grey right now. I do not rehome and that is not an option regardless of circumstances, I wouldn't put my children in foster homes, or give them up for adoption and I believe the same thing about my other babies. I wouldn't be closed to the idea of adopting an older grey either. Right now I'm a sponge, just absorbing everything I can, I have time to make my decision, I will never bring one into my family while I'm not ready! So for right now the information hunting is underway!