Hi everyone. We are Robin and Chris. We have adopted a grey named CJ. He is a rescued bird and is still getting used to us. From what we understand, he was abused in some manner, but we dont know what happened to him. We have had him for about 3 weeks and after week 1, he actually came to me and would sit on my shoulder. Now he wont come to either my husband or I, and tries to bite us everytime we put our arm up and ask him to step up. He especially goes after fingers.
He would pull his feathers out on his breast and his wings before we got him, since we have had him a few of them started growing back, but he pulled those out and a few of his tail feathers also.
We can't get him to bathe, much less try to take him out or off his cage with a towel. We tried to mist him with a bottle, which he promptly attacked his toys throwing them in his cage.
He whimpers and shakes and this breaks our heart, we are at a loss of what to do and everything we have read on the internet is not working.
Please, please help us, we want him to be a part of our family.